book review
Book Review: What is the Gospel by Greg Gilbert
by Butch on Aug.31, 2010, under book review, meditation
What Is the Gospel? by Greg Gilbert
My rating: 4 of 5 stars
Really good short book on the essential elements of the gospel as distinguished from some popular errors in modern evangelicalism. Short, too the point, and inspirational.
Book Review: Not Even a Hint by Joshua Harris
by Butch on Aug.25, 2010, under book review, marriage, meditation
Not Even a Hint: Guarding Your Heart Against Lust by Joshua Harris
My rating: 5 of 5 stars
This is the best book I’ve read on dealing with lust and sexual sin. I highly recommend it.
Josh Harris, author of I Kissed Dating Goodbye, deals transparently with the roots of lust and the real issues behind it. Then he equips the reader with the tools needed to fight it.
The biggest problem we have in the fight for moral purity is that we’ve let the lies of the world influence our thinking. Josh helps us see where we’ve gone astray and realign with God.
One other key point about this is that it is not just for men, but for women as well. We all battle it in different ways and Josh deals with it evenhandedly.
Read it!
Book Review: Forgotten God by Francis Chan
by Butch on Jul.06, 2010, under book review, ministry
The Forgotten God: Reversing Our Tragic Neglect of the Holy Spirit by Francis Chan
My rating: 5 of 5 stars
Francis Chan picks up the mantle of Bill Bright in helping the church form a biblical understanding of the way that the indwelling of the Holy Spirit should change us. This is a challenging book and you may or may not agree with everything (I didn’t) but all believers do need to think through the things he is saying. Come Holy Spirit and fill your church!
Forgiving and Forbearing – TMM Chap 4
by Butch on Jun.16, 2010, under book review, marriage
Continuing the theme from Chapter 3 of how marriage illustrates the fact that Christ’s relationship with his bride is built on a basis of grace, Chapter 4 speaks about two forms which that grace must take. Colossians 3:12-13 tells us
Put on then, as God’s chosen ones, holy and beloved, compassionate hearts, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience, bearing with one another and, if one has a complaint against another, forgiving each other; as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive.(Colossians 3:12-13 ESV, emphasis added)
If you are quick to anger, instead of being long-suffering, the root is probably lack of mercy and lack of lowliness. In other words, being chosen, holy, and loved has not broken your heart and brought you down from self-centeredness and pride.
Paul recognizes that both forgiving and forbearing are crucial for life together – whether in church or marriage. Forgiveness says: I will not treat you badly because of your sins against me or your annoying habits. And forbearance acknowledges (usually to itself): Those sins against me and those annoying habits really bother me or hurt me! If there were nothing in the other person that really bothered us or hurt us, there would be no need for saying “endure one another.”
Book Review: Son of Hamas
by Butch on Jun.08, 2010, under book review, culture
Son of Hamas by Mosab Hassan Yousef
My rating: 5 of 5 stars
True life spy-thriller told from by one with a unique perspective on the Israeli/Palestinian question. Born as the son of one of Hamas’ founders, Mosab tells how the teachings of Jesus transformed his thinking after he became a spy for the Israeli Shin Bet. He eventually put his faith in Christ and sought to stop as much violence as possible.
Absolutely riveting book with a great message and witness to the power of the gospel to change a life and many of those around it.
God’s Showcase of Covenant-Keeping Grace – TMM Chapter 3
by Butch on May.21, 2010, under book review, marriage, ministry
When asked what she wanted John Piper to say at this point, his wife Noel said “You cannot say too often that marriage is a model of Christ and the church.” Piper gives three reasons:
- This lifts marriage out of the sordid sitcom images and gives it the magnificent meaning God meant it to have
- This gives marriage a solid basis in grace, since Christ obtained and sustains his bride by grace alone, and
- This shows that the husband’s headship and the wife’s submission are crucial and crucified.
Chapters 1 and 2 discussed the first reason. Chapters 3-5 will deal with reason #2 – how the grace of God should impact our marriages as they become showcases of new-covenant grace. Piper says we do this by “resting in the experience of God’s grace and bending it out from a vertical experience with God into a horizontal experience with (our) spouse.” This is the basis on which we can be naked and not ashamed in spite of the fact that we have much to be ashamed of.
In order to really hold this in perspective, it is critical that we hold close the memory of the wrath of God that we deserve. “Without a biblical view of God’s wrath, you will be tempted to think that your wrath – your anger – against your spouse is simply too big to overcome, because you have never really tasted what it is like to see an infinitely greater wrath overcome by grace, namely, God’s wrath against you.” Our sins were nailed to the cross, but not only our own but those of our spouse as well, if we are married to a believer. Piper says, “Husbands and wives cannot believe this too strongly. It is essential to our fulfilling the design of marriage.”
But the gospel goes beyond mere forgiveness, amazing as that is. It not only wipes away our debt but it credits us with the perfect righteousness of Christ himself! So not only can we bend outward the grace of God in forgiveness but also the justification that makes us righteous. Piper says, “As the Lord counts you righteous in Christ, though you are not righteous in actual behavior and attitude, so count your spouse righteous in Christ, though he or she is not righteous. Of course, this doesn’t remove the need for repentance and forgiveness, but grounded in the words of Col 3:12-13 it gives us a basis for forgiving and forbearing with our spouses.
In the next chapter, we will explore Forgiving and Forbearing.
Staying Married is Not Mainly about Staying in Love – TMM Chap 1
by Butch on Apr.22, 2010, under book review, marriage, meditation
Continuing the series blogging through John Piper’s excellent book This Momentary Marriage: A Parable of Permanence we come to the first chapter entitled “Staying Married is Not Mainly about Staying in Love.” Here Piper first really makes the case that marriage is about something infinitely more than two people in love wanting to live their lives together. Our culture simply does not understand this, and neither did Jesus’ culture (Matt 19:10-12) or any human culture. Our sin and selfishness blind us to the wonder of God’s purpose for marriage.
Foundationally, marriage is God’s doing. Piper illustrates this in four ways:
- It is God’s design. He saw the solitude of the man and knew that he needed a helper suited to him (Gen 2:18). When Adam realized none of the animals would do, God created another creature in His image for Adam (Gen 1:27)
- God gave away the first bride. I’ve never seen this before but, as the Father of the bride, God “brought her to the man.” (Gen 2:22)
- God spoke the design of marriage into existence by saying “Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.” (Gen 2:24)
- God performs the one-flesh union. The preacher doesn’t make the couple one flesh and it doesn’t happen at the consummation. God joins them together and it is not in man’s power or prerogative to destroy (Mark 10:8-9).
But ultimately, Piper argues, this marriage that God has created is designed for God’s glory. That this holding fast and one flesh union is a sacred covenant is implicit in Genesis but becomes explicit in Ephesians 5.
Christ thought of himself as a bridegroom coming for his bride, the true people of God (Matt 9:15; 25:1ff; John 3:29). … Christ knew he would have to pay for his bride with his own blood. He called this relationship the new covenant … This is what Paul is referring to when he says that marriage is a great mystery: “I am saying that it refers to Christ and the church.” Christ obtained the church by his blood and formed a new covenant with her, an unbreakable “marriage.”
The ultimate thing we can say about marriage is that it exists for God’s glory. That is, it exists to display God. Now we see how: Marriage is patterned after Christ’s covenant relationship to his redeemed people, the church. And therefore, the highest meaning and the most ultimate purpose of marriage is to put the covenant relationship of Christ and his church on display. That is why marriage exists. If you are married, that is why you are married. If you hope to be, that should be your dream.
Staying married, therefore, is not mainly about staying in love. It is about keeping covenant…Therefore what makes divorce and remarriage so horrific in God’s eyes is not merely that it involves covenant-breaking to the spouse, but that it involves misrepresenting Christ and his covenant. Christ will never leave his wife. Ever. There may be times of painful distance and tragic backsliding on our part. But Christ keeps his covenant forever. Marriage is a display of that! (pp 24-25)
So the most important thing about marriage is showing in real life the glory of the gospel. Let me share a couple of questions for reflection and comment below:
- How does the idea of marriage as a display of Christ’s covenant keeping love change the way you think about your own marriage?
- Does this mean that it is not important whether you stay in love? If not, what role should your feelings play in your marriage?
Blogging thru “This Momentary Marriage” – Introduction
by Butch on Apr.12, 2010, under book review, marriage, meditation, ministry
I recently completed my first reading of what has become my new favorite book on marriage, and it comes from my favorite preacher. In This Momentary Marriage, John Piper looks at the biblical teaching on marriage from a perspective not often taken, asking “What is it’s eternal meaning?” The result is profoundly convicting and instructive.
In her forward to the book, John’s wife Noel Piper shares about their own marriage and how their extreme differences have led their marriage to swing on a pendulum between “How in the world did I get such an amazing husband?” to “How in the world did we get into such a mess?” However, in spite of the ups and downs, she affirms that marriage is ultimately a reflection of Christ’s relationship with the church. That’s all marriages, regardless of sin. So the question she asks is, “How clear and well-focused is the portrait of Jesus that our marriage is displaying?”
The Introduction begins with the story of Dietrich Bohnoeffer, who was engaged to be married when he was hanged at dawn on April 9, 1945 by the Nazis for his involvement in a plot to assassinate Adolf Hitler.Piper writes:
So he never married. He skipped the shadow on the way to the Reality. Some are called to one kind of display of the worth of Christ, some to another. Martyrdom, not marriage, was his calling. (p 13)
Piper then shares the story of John and Betty Stam who were martyred in China leaving behind an infant daughter. They were reunited in heaven, but not as husband and wife for there is no marriage in heaven (Mark 12:25).
The shadow of covenant-keeping between husband and wife gives way to the reality of covenant-keeping between Christ and his glorified Church. Nothing is lost. The music of every pleasure is transposed into an infinitely higher key. (pp 14-15)
In “A Wedding Sermon from a Prison Cell,” Dietrich Bonhoeffer wrote
Marriage is more than your love for each other…In your love you see only the heaven of your own happiness, but in marriage you are placed at a post of responsibility towards the world and mankind. Your love is your own private possession, but marriage is more than something personal – it is a status, an office. Just as it is the crown, and not merely the will to rule, that makes the king, so it is marriage, and not merely your love for each other, that joins you together in the sight of God and man.
So this is the theme of the book:
to enlarge your vision of what marriage is…The meaning of marriage is the display of the covenant keeping love between Christ and his people. … It is a good gift from God, but it is only one possible path along the narrow way to Paradise. Marriage passes through breathtaking heights and through swamps with choking vapors. It makes many things sweeter, and with it come bitter providences. Marriage is a momentary gift.
In the coming weeks, I will be blogging through the fifteen chapters of this short 180-page book, sharing some of the most meaningful insights that I have gained as a result of reading it. I hope they will be meaningful to you as well.
If you’d like to read the entire book, which I highly recommend, it is available for free in PDF form on Piper’s web site, or you can purchase it from the common sources.
Some questions in the meantime:
- Does your own marriage swing on the pendulum from idealism to pessimism? Do you spend more time on one end or the other?
- Have you ever considered marriage as a picture of the relationship of Christ and the church?
- What do you think about Jesus’ words that there will be no marriage in heaven? Does that disappoint you? What about Piper’s comment that in heaven “the music of every pleasure is transposed to an infinitely higher key?”
- Bonhoeffer talks about marriage as more than a personal thing but as a responsibility toward the world. How does that strike you? How would it change things if you approached it that way?
Share your thoughts or comments below
by Butch on Apr.06, 2010, under book review, marriage, meditation
This Momentary Marriage: A Parable of Permanence by John Piper
My rating: 5 of 5 stars
This is clearly the best book on marriage I’ve ever read, hands-down. John Piper states so profoundly what I’ve been convicted is the real purpose of marriage, raising our thoughts to something much higher, and in the process giving us the power to live out a Christ-exalting marriage. This is a must-read for everyone who’s married or knows someone who’s married.
Book Review: Scandalous by D. A. Carson
by Butch on Mar.23, 2010, under book review
Scandalous: The Cross and Resurrection of Jesus by D.A. Carson
My rating: 4 of 5 stars
Based on five sermons delivered at a Resurgence conference at Mars Hill, Seattle, Carson explores the absolutely stunning truths of the cross and resurrection of Jesus Christ. Each chapter is a treasure unto itself. Together they make up a great meditation for the Easter season. Highly recommended!